The Diary of an Inner Child Part 5 or Old habits die hard not only trying to deal with your own inner child but others seem to be using theirs against you. Annielise Stone March 2010

March 7th, 2010

Continuing the story of the inner child parts one to four can be also found on my website www.sensingwithspirit.com

Thanks Annielise

In previous posts about the Inner Child I have talked how we should try to have a relationship with our own inner child when we ignore her we suddenly find she has a cob and starts either the sulk or the plan to make us feel vulnerable insecure and threatened.

All these things are used by her to UN nerve us and throw us off balance. This leads to a second battle and the one I am talking about is the power struggle not only of your own inner child but even of someone else’s who decided to feed of you and her.

So all of a sudden there are two forces at work your own inner worries and third party of someone else’s personal issues.

Example: You get dragged into someone else’s friction you know it the two other people who have spent many months plotting and scheming against each other who seem to try and build up sides and armies and you trying to do your job suddenly finds yourself either on the end of it or bang right in the middle. They are every where work, college even at home.

You have spent all week trying to avoid situations and just plod along trying not to get on anyone’s nerves and here it is Friday and power struggle explodes. Next your inner child starts I told you so, I said you should not work with these types and you always end up with taking the blame. No only are you trying to work out who these other types are but already your head aches your stressed.

The weekends of to a brilliant start and already your dreading Monday morning for as sure eggs are eggs its some how going to be your fault even though you did your job followed the rules and still some how managed to come out with the dog poo on your shoes and it don’t matter, how many times you wash it off the smell wont go away.

What’s next! You ask yourself do you spend the whole weekend wondering if you going to get pulled in to explain your side and to be honest what side. Why should you even have to explain that you follow the policy laid down the rules and guidelines of!

Again the sun shiners the types it don’t matter what goes down they come up smelling of roses. Will have a fantastic weekend and their gloating Inner Childs have managed not only to have been fed and watered for another week they even have bonus points for upsetting yours.

Limit the damage try to explain to yourself first that your not alone you just feel like it. You’re not the only person in the world who feels that what ever they try to do it always seems to be wrong. Be careful of the sympathetic ear yes we all need to off load but don’t do it to news week again the report will get out of hand and in the end your will find yourself front page news and not for the right reasons.

Chocolate helps along with a nice hot bath play some of your favourite music or watch a good film. Learn to read the signs before they happen. Smile in most situations. The Inner Child loves her chocolate but not too much or we have the sick issues. Next try smiling it confuses people it also makes them wonder if they have actually achieved their goal.

To be honest you may feel like cr… But don’t show it. Suggestion: when in difficult situations answer question with a question.Then say sorry but I haven’t got all the information “Can I get back you Brad?” It gives you breathing space ok on insight you won’t remember it every time but like my old mum used to say for warned is for armed. I am sure she read is somewhere and its someone else famous quote in the end its good advice so have a better week Annielise Stone March 7th 2010

Diary of an Inner Child part 4. The Plotters and Schemers just waiting for the time when they can creep just when you not looking and…………………………

February 19th, 2010

Diary of an Inner Child part 4 The Plotters and Schemers just waiting for the time when they can creep just when you not looking and…………………………

The inner child’s been quite for the past few days and you’re plodding along not really thinking about any thing in particular. It’s too cold to worry if the extra pounds, are creeping on due the mid week chocolate fix and boy it was Valentines Day, so you had to spoil yourself just in case any one else didn’t. You probably even sent yourself a card at sometime just to have one on the side to show the world someone loved you.

Its Easter next and already the chocolate you have secretly given up for lent. Your planning a huge fix when no ones looking. Dreaming Chocolate Bunnies and drooling like Homers after a do nut!

But ! In the back ground, the constant thought, the promise of listening and supporting the inner child it’s suddenly become easier to ignore her.  Why because she been watching she been looking and she knows the flaws. In the meantime someone’s, working someone, who would not  usually say Boo to a Goose has been plotting and scheming and under minding you, not only work but a so called friend who has always had the eye on a particular someone, something, position is at work also.

Then the out of the blue question comes “How are doing? How are things going? What do you feel?” Next you find that someone had said something and it’s so small your gob smacked and there you are defending yourself over something so trivial that you can’t believe what you just heard.

Do you talk to too much? Do you talk not enough are you a team player and slap the wind is taken straight out of your sails.

This situation is real its apart of every day whether its work home or personal watching, your back is a full time job and also listening to the Inner Child too because honestly we all get to complacent. We start to believe our own status and our own self importance.

So what do we do us fight back we pull up our socks stick out our chin and HIDE I KNOW! We are so out raged at the audacity of the situation we are stuck,we are struck we are so out raged we fail, with moving  forward. Once we lick our wounds, complain to the nearest sympatric ear we have to stop and put up a defense. The quite would not say boo to a ghost types are secret plotters and schemers and don’t you forget it. The old saying walls have ears means exactly that behind every success is someone who not only wants it but will try everything to get it. Am I cynical perhaps or just cautious because my inner child was actually warning me of this weeks ago but I was so full of my own importance, I forgot to listen?

So a week or so goes past ,you can’t make your mind up if the complain is genuine or if now you have inferiority complex, or perhaps a bit of both. You have spent nights going over the situation in your head and others say oh don’t worry let it go. Where? when deep down you know you’re the new guy even though you may have been there for ever.

Let’s face it. It’s not the first time. It may not be the last UN less you alters it. HOW.

Expectation what did you expect if you’re not confident in what you’re doing it will show they say bull Sh..te Baffles brains but to be fair you can only use so much of that before it bites you back. Don’t get complacent be prepared for the UN expected and realise you’re not alone. I follow the ABC plan Annielise view to surving almost any situation if A doesn’t work try B and if B doesn’t work try C. There are 26 options in my plans and if I run out of them I use A1 like my mum once said there are more that one way or catching a Rat you sometimes have to think like one. Like they say in the song Pick yourself up and Start all over again. Exits and Entry plan your routes like keeping a filo fax what to cubs and guides are prepared. You do have to realise that for some of us to keep going is to keep trying. Tip for the Day Smile Sweetly at the Emery it confuses them and their ego will think that they have won. But that’s where they are wrong we know better By Annielise Stone 19th Feb 2010

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February 18th, 2010

International Psychic Medium Annielise Stone  has just joined Facebook and Twitter you can join her and start receiving her tweets or add as a friend on your face book account.

Hi all I have joined facebook and twitter if I am really detemined to get the message out there I also need your help. I really enjoy writing the blogs and being a part of the huge plan I just sometimes feel that you can get over looked and this way you can also be a part of the bigger plan thank you so spread the word and if you like what your reading tell others

Diary of the Inner Chid Part 3 Why is it some days even before you get out of bed you wish you hadn’t

February 13th, 2010

“Communication is not just spoken word it’s a gesture a sign”. By Annielise Stone Internation Medium 13th Feb 2010 sensingwithspirit.com


Some days the Inner Child gets up earlier than you in fact she probably didn’t shut up at all, kept you awake half the night worrying about anything and everything, too numerous to mention and your too knackered to care.

You know it’s the sort of day you wake up with that huge spot or Zit on your chin no matter how much concealer you put on it. There it is for the whole world to see along with the fact, you can find any clean underwear and your favourite top has shrunk in the wash. Guess what the paper in the loo run out too!

From there the day seems to escalate at a speed faster than a landslide. You miss the bus, the train and you have run out of milk for that all important hot beverage TEA. You creep into work hoping that you can hide the fact you’re A) 15 minutes late, and B) the huge growth on your chin.

There she is waiting to pounce and the day is set. You have forgotten to take back the library books and the 3 DVD’s that you got thinking you have a you moment only to find you seen two before and the other one was complete utter rubbish to top it all your a day late and the fines mean you could have brought them cheaper.

So the lunch hour is spent trying to find the shortest cue and you end up with a cold coffee and dry sandwich because all the best ones are gone. The machine in the library is asking for the fines and wont let you take anything else out until you paid and finally you have forgotten your pin and can get any cash out for the bus home.

For some of us this is a too regular occurrence and you can guarantee your are continually going too put your foot in it.

One of my favourite sayings”Talks of the devil and it follows you up”. With all my good intentions to try and practise Karma even I have days. The inner child has her moments I am sure all of you have seen the cartoons with the devil on one shoulder and the Angel on the other and fighting both and usually the chocolate wins hands down.

Mind! You’re inner child needs attention love and lots of understanding making peace with her is a full time job but very worth while and when you work together. Both of you end up with a win win. Rather than win loose. (“I told you so”)

Today been a particularly difficult one it’s like don’t get too complacent and deep down recognise you cant please people all of the time in some cases you cant please some people at all. Realism recognises that as human beings we also have flaws and we do screw up all of us at sometime or another.

I have written over 70 blogs in the last couple of years and today my website decide it did not want to work or let anyone view my thoughts. Perhaps my own ego got in the way and I presumed that by talking about various subjects and opinions that I could reach a wider audience. I have met people from all over the world I have given readings to many different countries races and continents all of these people came from different back ground and I liked to think with my help they moved forward working through their own pathways. I always try to include humour in my blogs as without them the ability to make fun at ones own self would make me appear boring. I got told to today you like to talk. I do! should I have taken offence. Perhaps is it the case that I want to try give you some tools to help you work with life instead of against it.

My reply was also I can listen for if I had spent all my life talking how I would be able to provide so much information on so many subjects without having someone talk to me.

“Communication is not just spoken word it’s a gesture a sign”. By Annielise Stone sensingwithspirit.com

I watched an old film last night with Robin Williams and Robert De Nero in called the Awakening the story of a man who tried to help people who were affected by an illness which causes them to retreat into their own worlds making them completely dependant on others. For a short time drugs work to help these people but with all medicines we don’t know the side effects. The point was he learnt behind the drugs to reach people was human contact. Time, understanding and yes, talking which I do a great deal of.

As the story unfolds the line There is not such thing as a simple miracles expresses that we all need greater understanding of life itself. Annielise Stone 13th Feb 2010

Diary of the Inner Child part 2 or in other words continuing the Journey of Self Acceptance by Annielise Stone 09 02 2010

February 9th, 2010

Diary of the Inner Child part 2 or in other words continuing the Journey of Self Acceptance by Annielise Stone 09 02 2010

I want this post to be a support and I want you to support it because if these remarks fit you just how many of us needs to work not necessarily on becoming super models but more and ground balance humans who can accept that you can make a difference

I first started this post last month when felt that the the winter blues had finally set in or was it the fact it was realised that the jeans you had brought just before Christmas now you cant even get one leg in let alone done up. That’s one of the great things about the cold weather you can hide under the jumpers and coat and woolly hats and pretend you have on loads of layers to hide the Christmas binge.

True there are those wonderful adverts saying do this and and in two weeks you can have a figure like mine. Plus here its too blooming cold to want to A exercise and B eat salad.

Now I do realize that not every country in the world is living in winter. I myself lived in New Zealand for 3 years and the summer months are the UK winter months which can get a little confusing at times. It is easier to want to eat less when you’re not cold.

Back to the plot the quick fixes don’t work neither, do the diets unless you have the time, will, power and determination to make it a career. All of you know someone who no matter what they eat never puts on a pound and others who look at chocolate and gain five pound. Have we all got to suffer and self loath ourselves just to fit the perfect mould.

Who says we have to be thin and who says what is redeemed to be fat a Uk size 10 to 12 was small and 14 to 16 medium anything bigger was large but that’s ok too because of height stature but now days its all about if your not a size 6 to 8 then your not in the in crowd. And anything over a size 12 and your huge. The catwalk models are beautiful women in their own right but also a woman should have curves and be proud of them.

What ever your size pressure is going to make you smaller because that is the image that is readily promoted today.

I want to help everyone take a second look at their inner child listen to what makes them happy balance out and find the middle ground. Heal the need to be something your not.

Years ago when Hollywood actors and actresses were on our screens it was black and white they had little gadgets and the films were made on budgets with most of them doing their own stunts. If you look back on the archives you will see people with big noses sticky out ears and laughter lines no boltox or computers to cleverly cover up the lumps and bumps. If one had a spot you saw it. Everyone knows the famous Christmas Song White Christmas Bing Crosby he had a large nose and big ears but that did not stop him doing what he loved best.

Owen Wilson is well known and popular Actor he has had his own issues with life and even being famous does have its draw backs. One of the important things was he does not have a perfect face he has charm but his nose is not perfect but its not immediately apparent that he has plastic surgery to improve its looks.

I again am trying to find ways to let you know what’s inside will effect how you act on the outside. For some people it won’t matter what they do to the outside they will still see that insecurity on the inside. It could be due to the fact of

Life conditioning from others emotional bullying, family issues relationship issues and even for some past life issues.

As this blog develops I want to look at ways to help heal that inner child for some it may be just a simple healing a visit back to the place inside and making peace.

Perhaps looking at a mediation to acknowledge and start the progress to recovery.

Annielise Stone Feb 2010

Continuing Information on Past Lives/ Reincarnation 2010-02-07

February 7th, 2010

Continuing Information on Past Lives/ Reincarnation

2010-02-07

Most people question every thing even as children we are why is the sky blue and the grass green and why does even looking at chocolate make me put on weight.

If we take every thing at face value we would all end up walking around like sheep. Now I am not insulting the animal in fact I learnt some information about sheep that states they can remember faces of another sheep for up to 3 years. So when they loose there lambs they not only can call for them but can recognise them even years later if given the chance.

With all my blogs I attempt to make you think yes I use humour but I know that we remember things that stick out and I want to encourage you all to be aware of so many different articles, lesson, and information so you in turn will tell other.

Again this goes back to the time before people could read or write. Recipes from family past down from generation to generation stories and traditions that all cultures try to maintain that do get forgotten. Even the bible which was first spoke about over 2000 years ago was told as stories from person to person.

I am not trying to convert anyone to disrespect anyone’s belief or culture what I am trying to do is let each of you make your own mind up and if in your heart you believe what your doing is true you make your own peace in time with your own council and god presence.

Now I want to continue with these weeks thoughts on past lives.

In this remark I mean the pain behind the pain the ache the fear the lack of sleep depression etc. There is no apparent reason for why this started at this particular time place moment in time. There are many people who are trained to help with situations like this a very well known and respected lady being Sylvia Browne.

She has written many wonderful books on the subject she has worked tirelessly for many years to help people from all over the world to understand and heal.

Anyone who is starting out looking for information on this subject would benefit from reading her work she has also done many other consultations and media to promote well being and understanding for so many individuals. I have never met the lady I can only say that I respect and admire the work she has done and she gave me the inspiration to want to help others too thank you

Exerts from Annielise Stone on the subject of Past lives and Reincarnation Feb 2010.

Annielise Stone Feb 2010 Site up dates now viewable on annielisestone.com/.co.uk

February 6th, 2010

Site up dates. From Annielise Stone Feb 2010

I do plan to write more on the diary of an Inner Child and I still have quite a bit of more information to write up on past lives.

I want the site to be more accessible this year I ran out of my band width  got eaten up last month due to all the different articles which needing categorising to make it easier for you to access the different areas you might be interested in.

Again if you have a subject you would like some information on or you want particular information on a subject ask and I see what I can do.I have joined twitter and also started up facebook for those who might like to join me.

The biggest pain this month was I lost a lot of information from people who I had email contacts with. They were people I had helped or even just pointed in a different direction. So please if you have ever contacted me via my email address. Which is annielisestone@sensingwithspirit.com please just let me contact me again so we can keep in touch Thanks.

I also want to let you know that I eventually want my site to be www.annielisestone.com I can also be reached on my uk site www.annielisestone.co.uk

As I originally started out wanting my own site with my own name but I do intend to keep sensingwithspirt too.

I attended a psychic evening last night it was good evening.

The messages that came out for my clients were accurate and very moving.

One lady expressed to me that she had seen many Mediums in the past and she had waited to hear from loved ones and friends. She had previously had conformation of proof of spirit.

She told me that she  had waited for many years to have a message from a particular person or persons.

She in fact was able to take 4 people all who she had desperately wanted to hear from.

She confirmed that no one had ever brought these people through before and that she had spent a long time trying to hear that these people were ok.

It’s on these occasions that I know what I do is truly a gift and I am so very humble to be able to do what I do.

It’s been an amazing week for messages and spirit connections Thank you.

Love and Best wishes Annielise Stone

The Diary of the Inner Child dealing with it and everyone connected to it. Or in other words why am I so UN happy when everyone else has it all.

January 23rd, 2010

Day I think its Saturday Date January.

I cant remember they all feel the same.

Effort lost the plot reason to many to list and God why me?

The outer body or visible image we show the world is not always the true picture. We all walk around shielding our problems and fears and then wonder why they turn round and bite us.

The pressure to be a certain look the perfect weight and the ideal Head Girl/Boy follows all from childhood.

Do we all get to that point where we feel we deserve our fate?

How many have tried the Gok fix and failed. The how to look good naked and if I have a big bum don’t wear stripes. I am not criticising the programmes that trys to help with self esteem. For some lucky few this may be a short term fix and like the eating the last chocolate in the box and the feeling sick the attention, the intention soon disappears when the up keep is totally impossible on a budget and that includes time and motion.

Like a room that freshly painted it soon starts to mark and chip if you don’t keep it clean, tidy and untouched. That’s the point up keep of our bodies and lifestyles are so totally consuming it no wonder we often fail at the first post.

Lettuce anyone with a sense of humour will probably have seen Matt Lucas play Marjorie Doors who constantly takes pleasure from taking the Mickey out of others who again suffer with weight and self esteem issues. Ok its funny and yes us all need some light refreshment and those of you who again, watched the Telly when the famous PG monkeys on it will remember the phrase “Thank you most kindly Madam”. So you see I do have a sense of humour too!

My point is that Lettuce and Dust, for some people who are so desperate to fit in to make the mould to be in the in crowd are usually so sick of it that every day, adverts and images only adds to a sad soul and adds to depression and self loathing.

How many of you out there have spent nearly all their life trying to be perfect. Well sorry it aint just going to happen Fact. Unless you win the lottery and even then, the hours of painful surgery and diets and exercise leave you with an outer shell that looks what perfect and then define it. What is perfect for each of us it would be different.

They say beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder but what happens when what we see is not what we feel, hurt just doesn’t go away it needs understanding love encouragement and lots and lots of attention. So this inner child surfaces.

Why because this where it all starts even from that first day at school when some decides you fit the mould that your in with the In Crowd. You can see it almost in an instance even as early as the first mother and toddler group and you don’t have to be an expert to spot it.

Now another point is does the history of the mother’s inner child follow the child’s inner child are we set up to fail even before we start.

Simple you can fix the outside to look a certain way but that fix can soon become empty just like the purse runs out of money. Just like the hair cut that needs to be done every few weeks along with the colour and then what happens you get home from the experts and then guess what it never looks the same.

Now that is a statement its true and I can speak for all of you. Even a hairdresser cant do her own hair as all of us that tried to cut our own fringe in the mirror will know.

This is a long blog and I am not even half way through to get your attention first I want to realise that the human race has flaws its not perfect and very few people are content with their lot.

There is always going to be someone more Clever, better looking, thinner, younger, talented, smarter nicer, richer, healthy the list is endless

There is always going to be someone who is faster than you who wins everything from the girl to job and the car.

They say that like attracts like and I have seen it yet, when I speak to those people they too in turn complain that they haven’t got it easy and have flaws too.

What do they do, they hide it. Yet they still seem to win the first prize in the raffle and walk away with a gift they did not need and probably did not even want. They just cant help themselves.

To have a style and image takes work and lots of it. It’s a 24 hour a day 365 days a year and for most people it impossible.

A comparison would be an athlete training for the Olympics only to come last and then not only having to face your coach, family friends and country. You have to face yourself and say I failed. What is failure surely the fact he got there was important. But to Whom.

I say you may feel that you have failed today but you have not failed tomorrow you still have a choice and that is what makes us different from animals. A squirrel who spends the spring and summer collecting food for the winter know that if he don’t get enough food he go hungry and starve he might be lucky and get the odd left over but it’s his responsibility.

You may be thinking what has all this got to do with my inner child. First and foremost if you don’t love wants on the inside it don’t matter how much you change yourself the outside may look different to everyone else but it stays the same for you.

If you feel sad on the inside you can hide it for so long but it will surface and depression will set in. The factors are numerous and each point can have a completely different trigger. I once picked up a book it said 300 reasons to be depressed I thought great I could read this and find a few more.

Even different types of medication can improve or even make the conditions worse. Then there is the Season condition where the lack of sunlight and bright colours makes us feel like cr…p.

Yep the good old weather does make or break our day. So proven there are probably more happy contented good looking people in the shinny countries then in a place when it pees down with rain wind and hail 70% of the time. Yet another, reason to make us feel that the world and its army are against us.

So I have come to the part where how do we deal with it?

What you may ask if I have spent money on the outside why is the inside not happy, why I have suddenly not become this perfect person they told I could be. I have watched all the films I have read all the books I have spent hours eating lettuce and starving myself and looking at web pages of chocolate cake and drooling at the images on screen and yet I still have put on weight.  For What ! to find that I am just as UN happy, just as miserable and I am just as fed up and I still feel sh…

I have the gym membership but instead of feeling motivated I feel deflated I braved it once then the local stick insect came along with the perfect body the perfect hair style and the perfect job waltz in speaks a very loud voice to the instructor “Can we work on our stomach”! mines such a problem area and you look at them think what the …… get real. So motivation goes out of the window you reach for the chocolate or the large glass of wine and wonder what next is to come months of staving yourself to get into those perfect jeans to find in one mouthful of chocolate its caused the flood gates to open tears frustration hatred self loathing.

The punishment begins you get up the next morning and relate to Dawn French as you find you not only fallen of the wagon but you have also ate the wagon train itself. The face looks like a kids’ join the dots page and you can’t even get your bum into old favourites let alone anything half reasonable that you can wear to the supermarket you decide do you fake an illness or can you phone in and say that Granny lost her cat.

The fact is the plot has gone, the effort has gone and your back looking and wondering why you. What did you do to deserve this? They said things would change if you stayed on track and yet you’re back to square one.

I can say that self love is the first steps to recovery it don’t happen overnight and you will fall off the band wagon regularly. I know I have seen it there are no quick fixes and even the tightest knickers still can only hid the lumps and bumps on the outside.

On the outside you may have reached the perfect size * but on the inside you still feel 4 times bigger and your waiting for this little gremlin to tell you I told you so I told you your not……………………………… and the list goes on.

This post is not just about weight its about you and the fears and worries put on you by others, who in your life time took great pleasure at taunting, you putting, you down and making you feel worthless.

I want this post to be a support and I want you to support it because if these remarks fit you just how many of us needs to work not necessarily on becoming super models but more and ground balance humans who can accept that you can make a difference.

I plan to write more on this subject and some ideas on how we can help take you forward and the start of the journey to heal your inner child

Annielise Stone International Medium January 23rd 2010

Annielise Stone A Play on words a different approach to The Reason Season Lifetime.

January 8th, 2010

First post of 2010

Play on words

In October 2008 and I wrote a blog about reason season lifetime. The post was about how the people you meet and the relationships which can form from that.This post is about a play on words its another view of a blog which I spoke about my own spiritual side and this post is about relationships and love and the desire that we all keep looking for that special person.

Sometimes you meet or see a person and there is an instant attraction and it can be like an emotional roller coaster, its fast intent and exiting. It may hang around for a season but it definitely ends for a reason. Others are less exciting more ordinary slowly creeping up on you they hang around partly for the reason but get complacent and end up the season. You hope its going to be a lifetime and you make plans you may even think that your soul mates. Then you start to notice flaws things that annoy you strange habits or ways.

Now I know this post may seem a little cynical and nothing like I usually write. As with all things I write each is an opinion and nothing is ever written in stone. A play on words now this is where the title comes in Annielise Stone lol.Even so we all constanly look for this one person to make us complete and the Romantic in me says why not.

I am trying to get you to think to react I find that as humans we all start out with an ideal and it takes a lot of effort to maintain it. Like if you change your hair colour unless you keep it up you get root growth and it soon looses it glossy shine. Relationships require work family friends love ones you have to compromise and make allowances for people who you know deep down aren’t perfect but to have someone for some people is better than nothing.

So let’s realize that people come mainly on the whole for a reason. Some because they are lonely some because they need to be part of pack or set because they have always had someone to rely on and even if you don’t care you have someone to blame.

Let’s take ownership of our thoughts of our needs and of our desires. Soul mates do exist they are people who understand our strange foibles they except that we aren’t perfect they conditionally love us and are strong enough to make a stand or take a back seat.

The season people well like all bad weather you can wait for it to leave sometimes it leaves you out in the cold other times you boil with frustration and then like the fall it dissolves waiting for the spring in which time you can go all out to try for another season or just be glad they came for a reason.

Lifetime when do you work out whose lifetime it’s for. Do you measure it in month’s days or years the optimist in me wants everyone to have a special someone for at least a season. Is it when you think that someone with stay with you for ever does it become the lifetime only to find out when you have lived with someone for 20 years to tie the knot to then find out that you were happier because you had to work at your relationship when you were just partners but now your tied do you suddenly feel the trap.

Real love is achievable but to maintain it one will always have to let the other take charge equal partners are the best lifetimes each of them having enough strength to allow the other one to grow and trust and friendship humour and loyalty are all just some of the ingredients needed to make it work.

So I wish everyone this year a reason for love a season for love and the optimism to want it to last a life time. We all grow we all get tired and we all need a reason to love.

So this year my motto is find a reason and I am sure it will definitely turn into a season with lots of hard work. REASON SEASON LIFETIME.The choice is yours.

Annielise Stone Reflections 10 years on from the start of the Millennium 2009.

December 31st, 2009

Annielise Stone Reflections 10 years on from the start of the Millennium 2009.

I woke up this morning and my thoughts as always what is today and what am I going to do. December always seems to go in a flash as everyone is busy preparing for a few days of eating drinking and celebrating. The children get presents we try to see folks we have not seen in months or even years we all eat too much and most of us end up with at least one pair of socks from some distance family member.

Ten years on from the famous 1999 they wrote books they made films they talk about computer chaos the end of the world and civilization. But hang on a minute they talked about that in a George Orwell book 1984 and big brother watching you.

This chain of thoughts then went on even to the simplest things like now days you can’t be with out your Cell/ Mobile phone it’s almost to the point you can explode if you have lost or mislaid it. I know that some of you reading this will remember a time when we did not have such items or worried that we could not text. Communications has now be limited to symbols even the hardest languages in the world with over 2000 letter in the alphabet have the expression OK. Technology is amazing we have cars that we can’t service and we don’t repair the white goods any more computers every few years have a new must have. We have become a nation of throw aways and gadgets

We had such plans we were going into a new century yet came with it different sorts of problems wars recession bird flu swine flu. The year like every one see people who we love and care about leave the earth plane. We struggle with depression loneliness confusion and fear. We long for the time when it was simple and not complicated the added pressure of trying to be something or someone pushing us forward into debt.

Ten years on are we any happier are we any better off. For some No for other perhaps and for a few yes. I don’t want this to turn into a depressing blog for in all aspects of my opinion writing and thoughts it’s to empower others not to put them down. There is always going to be someone who you think is better looking has more money and has it all. If you ask them they probably find at least half a dozen reasons why also they consider their life sh.. Is the grass green on the other side No its still grass complete with different issues and problems and different ways and excitements.

The world woke up on the year 2000 and for some it had changed for others it was the same. Not really for nothing stays the same for every second something somewhere happens to someone. They get old they die they are born. We are the Human Race we have flaws and we are not perfect we make mistakes and we can be cruel. I like also to think we can be kind and fair too.

Life is a cup of half full’s or half empties the word is choice we try to make the right choice for the right time place situation. For people places and for ourselves. This blog is being written on one side of the hemisphere on the other side they are on the verge of another new year Welcome 2010 and should old aquatances be forgot or never come to mind. Remember people who you love remember people who made you laugh and remember people who made you think. To think is to be and from there you can act upon the next year to come with a fresh start and new belief that we can do better if we really put our minds to it Happy New Year and Welcome 2010. Annielise Stone