sensingwithspirit.com Annielise Stone

The people who are not what they first seem to be.

In all walks of life the human race hides behind a veil of pretence. We all met them and even at times we perhaps ourselves have used this shield to prevent others getting to close. For some it’s to hide a hurt a fear or even because they find it hard to commit.

I myself at times feel that I am a people pleaser I don’t like to say No neither do I like to intentionally upset anyone. Paulo Coelho the other day mentioned on a site that people who say maybe really want to say No but are afraid to commit. I was not sure what I was afraid to commit to but often I don’t or can’t really be bothered to do something and I end up doing it any way. Perhaps it’s the case I should ask will this affect or have an impact if I do or don’t.

This point struck home with me that am probably why I have great respect and admiration not only for him as an author but as a man and mentor too.

I was going though some of my own thoughts in my head I do this occasionally when a link strikes home and I came to the conclusion that some people will tell you anything to get A. A reaction and B. If they feel by humouring you or pretending to be interested in what your doing for self gain. If you’re naive you will think it’s because you are making them think. Now the question here is you may find out that really it was all talk.

Or even that a remark you made and you thought was true they had in fact lied or just left the information hoping you would not ask out right.

So my suggestion are don’t believe what you hear it can an often is watered down or even changed like Chinese whispers. Real friends you know deep down would not let you down.

Read the small print lots of us get caught out by the gift of the gab. The free gift which is not really free Along with the promise of better things to come if you invest now…

If someone you just met asks to borrow money remember your old grannies say never a lender or borrower be.

Trust you gut it never really lets you down.

Don’t rush to do something you’re not sure about unhappy about the result or you would be worried if it turned out bad.

Now to end this on a positive note you have to kiss a few frogs before you find a real prince. That real friends are measure by not what can do for them but what they do for you with out asking. And you can’t make a silk purse out of a sours ear.

Also as another thought dont seem to be to keen to be a part of something or someone only to end up doing all the talking walking working and then resent that you were only a stop gap until they got bored tired or just plain lazy. The interesting people are those who keep something back and do give everything up to fast. To maintain equal partners you first my have equal right and responsibilties.

Annielise Stone 22/6/10

I do plan to write more on the diary of an Inner Child and I still have quite a bit of more information to write up on past lives.

I want the site to be more accessible this year some of the posts need a bit more categorising to make it easier for you to access the different areas you might be interested in.

Again if you have a subject you would like some information on or you want particular information on a subject ask and I see what I can do.I have joined twitter and also started up facebook for those who might like to join me.

annielisestone@sensingwithspirit.com please just let me contact me again so we can keep in touch Thanks.

I also want to let you know that I eventually want my site to be www.annielisestone.com I can also be reached on my uk site www.annielisestone.co.uk

As I originally started out wanting my own site with my own name but I do intend to keep sensingwithspirt too.

I attended a psychic evening last night it was good evening.

The messages that came out for my clients were accurate and very moving.

One lady expressed to me that she had seen many Mediums in the past and she had waited to hear from loved ones and friends. She had previously had conformation of proof of spirit.

She told me that she  had waited for many years to have a message from a particular person or persons.

She in fact was able to take 4 people all who she had desperately wanted to hear from.

She confirmed that no one had ever brought these people through before and that she had spent a long time trying to hear that these people were ok.

It’s on these occasions that I know what I do is truly a gift and I am so very humble to be able to do what I do.

It’s been an amazing week for messages and spirit connections Thank you.

Love and Best wishes Annielise Stone

Diary of the Inner Child part 2 or in other words continuing the Journey of Self Acceptance by Annielise Stone 09 02 2010

I want this post to be a support and I want you to support it because if these remarks fit you just how many of us needs to work not necessarily on becoming super models but more and ground balance humans who can accept that you can make a difference

I first started this post last month when felt that the the winter blues had finally set in or was it the fact it was realised that the jeans you had brought just before Christmas now you cant even get one leg in let alone done up. That’s one of the great things about the cold weather you can hide under the jumpers and coat and woolly hats and pretend you have on loads of layers to hide the Christmas binge.

True there are those wonderful adverts saying do this and and in two weeks you can have a figure like mine. Plus here its too blooming cold to want to A exercise and B eat salad.

Now I do realize that not every country in the world is living in winter. I myself lived in New Zealand for 3 years and the summer months are the UK winter months which can get a little confusing at times. It is easier to want to eat less when you’re not cold.

Back to the plot the quick fixes don’t work neither, do the diets unless you have the time, will, power and determination to make it a career. All of you know someone who no matter what they eat never puts on a pound and others who look at chocolate and gain five pound. Have we all got to suffer and self loath ourselves just to fit the perfect mould.

Who says we have to be thin and who says what is redeemed to be fat a Uk size 10 to 12 was small and 14 to 16 medium anything bigger was large but that’s ok too because of height stature but now days its all about if your not a size 6 to 8 then your not in the in crowd. And anything over a size 12 and your huge. The catwalk models are beautiful women in their own right but also a woman should have curves and be proud of them.

What ever your size pressure is going to make you smaller because that is the image that is readily promoted today.

I want to help everyone take a second look at their inner child listen to what makes them happy balance out and find the middle ground. Heal the need to be something your not.

Years ago when Hollywood actors and actresses were on our screens it was black and white they had little gadgets and the films were made on budgets with most of them doing their own stunts. If you look back on the archives you will see people with big noses sticky out ears and laughter lines no boltox or computers to cleverly cover up the lumps and bumps. If one had a spot you saw it. Everyone knows the famous Christmas Song White Christmas Bing Crosby he had a large nose and big ears but that did not stop him doing what he loved best.

Owen Wilson is well known and popular Actor he has had his own issues with life and even being famous does have its draw backs. One of the important things was he does not have a perfect face he has charm but his nose is not perfect but its not immediately apparent that he has plastic surgery to improve its looks.

I again am trying to find ways to let you know what’s inside will effect how you act on the outside. For some people it won’t matter what they do to the outside they will still see that insecurity on the inside. It could be due to the fact of

Life conditioning from others emotional bullying, family issues relationship issues and even for some past life issues.

As this blog develops I want to look at ways to help heal that inner child for some it may be just a simple healing a visit back to the place inside and making peace.

Perhaps looking at a mediation to acknowledge and start the progress to recovery.

Annielise Stone Feb 2010

First post of 2010

Play on words

In October 2008 and I wrote a blog about reason season lifetime. The post was about how the people you meet and the relationships which can form from that.This post is about a play on words its another view of a blog which I spoke about my own spiritual side and this post is about relationships and love and the desire that we all keep looking for that special person.

Sometimes you meet or see a person and there is an instant attraction and it can be like an emotional roller coaster, its fast intent and exiting. It may hang around for a season but it definitely ends for a reason. Others are less exciting more ordinary slowly creeping up on you they hang around partly for the reason but get complacent and end up the season. You hope its going to be a lifetime and you make plans you may even think that your soul mates. Then you start to notice flaws things that annoy you strange habits or ways.

Now I know this post may seem a little cynical and nothing like I usually write. As with all things I write each is an opinion and nothing is ever written in stone. A play on words now this is where the title comes in Annielise Stone lol.Even so we all constanly look for this one person to make us complete and the Romantic in me says why not.

I am trying to get you to think to react I find that as humans we all start out with an ideal and it takes a lot of effort to maintain it. Like if you change your hair colour unless you keep it up you get root growth and it soon looses it glossy shine. Relationships require work family friends love ones you have to compromise and make allowances for people who you know deep down aren’t perfect but to have someone for some people is better than nothing.

So let’s realize that people come mainly on the whole for a reason. Some because they are lonely some because they need to be part of pack or set because they have always had someone to rely on and even if you don’t care you have someone to blame.

Let’s take ownership of our thoughts of our needs and of our desires. Soul mates do exist they are people who understand our strange foibles they except that we aren’t perfect they conditionally love us and are strong enough to make a stand or take a back seat.

The season people well like all bad weather you can wait for it to leave sometimes it leaves you out in the cold other times you boil with frustration and then like the fall it dissolves waiting for the spring in which time you can go all out to try for another season or just be glad they came for a reason.

Lifetime when do you work out whose lifetime it’s for. Do you measure it in month’s days or years the optimist in me wants everyone to have a special someone for at least a season. Is it when you think that someone with stay with you for ever does it become the lifetime only to find out when you have lived with someone for 20 years to tie the knot to then find out that you were happier because you had to work at your relationship when you were just partners but now your tied do you suddenly feel the trap.

Real love is achievable but to maintain it one will always have to let the other take charge equal partners are the best lifetimes each of them having enough strength to allow the other one to grow and trust and friendship humour and loyalty are all just some of the ingredients needed to make it work.

So I wish everyone this year a reason for love a season for love and the optimism to want it to last a life time. We all grow we all get tired and we all need a reason to love.

So this year my motto is find a reason and I am sure it will definitely turn into a season with lots of hard work. REASON SEASON LIFETIME.The choice is yours.

Annielise Stone Reflections 10 years on from the start of the Millennium 2009.

I woke up this morning and my thoughts as always what is today and what am I going to do. December always seems to go in a flash as everyone is busy preparing for a few days of eating drinking and celebrating. The children get presents we try to see folks we have not seen in months or even years we all eat too much and most of us end up with at least one pair of socks from some distance family member.

Ten years on from the famous 1999 they wrote books they made films they talk about computer chaos the end of the world and civilization. But hang on a minute they talked about that in a George Orwell book 1984 and big brother watching you.

This chain of thoughts then went on even to the simplest things like now days you can’t be with out your Cell/ Mobile phone it’s almost to the point you can explode if you have lost or mislaid it. I know that some of you reading this will remember a time when we did not have such items or worried that we could not text. Communications has now be limited to symbols even the hardest languages in the world with over 2000 letter in the alphabet have the expression OK. Technology is amazing we have cars that we can’t service and we don’t repair the white goods any more computers every few years have a new must have. We have become a nation of throw aways and gadgets

We had such plans we were going into a new century yet came with it different sorts of problems wars recession bird flu swine flu. The year like every one see people who we love and care about leave the earth plane. We struggle with depression loneliness confusion and fear. We long for the time when it was simple and not complicated the added pressure of trying to be something or someone pushing us forward into debt.

Ten years on are we any happier are we any better off. For some No for other perhaps and for a few yes. I don’t want this to turn into a depressing blog for in all aspects of my opinion writing and thoughts it’s to empower others not to put them down. There is always going to be someone who you think is better looking has more money and has it all. If you ask them they probably find at least half a dozen reasons why also they consider their life sh.. Is the grass green on the other side No its still grass complete with different issues and problems and different ways and excitements.

The world woke up on the year 2000 and for some it had changed for others it was the same. Not really for nothing stays the same for every second something somewhere happens to someone. They get old they die they are born. We are the Human Race we have flaws and we are not perfect we make mistakes and we can be cruel. I like also to think we can be kind and fair too.

Life is a cup of half full’s or half empties the word is choice we try to make the right choice for the right time place situation. For people places and for ourselves. This blog is being written on one side of the hemisphere on the other side they are on the verge of another new year Welcome 2010 and should old aquatances be forgot or never come to mind. Remember people who you love remember people who made you laugh and remember people who made you think. To think is to be and from there you can act upon the next year to come with a fresh start and new belief that we can do better if we really put our minds to it Happy New Year and Welcome 2010. Annielise Stone

At this time of year especially people often feel more lonely and sad than any other time of the year. The expression of being lonely in a crowded room a lot of people will understand. There are many reasons why the holiday season it’s not all snow and good cheer. It can remind us of people who we have loved and they are no longer on the earth plane. It can remind us of past relationships and friendships that we know longer keep in touch with and these can have many reasons why.

With all the hustle and bustle and the hidden pressure of trying to show willing many of us turn in ward even more than usual. Some hide others drink or even pretend they don’t care.  The human race is very complicated we have many cultures religious beliefs, pressure of family work and appearing to conform.

Don’t feel guilty that you’re not complying with the rules what rules.  The Christmas spirit is just that.  Get through it with limited damaged. If you get a gift you don’t really want grin and bear it the shops are open on Boxing Day and I am sure your find something in the sales you really want. Tolerate Aunt Aggie and all the annoying habits that come with the family members that we all really want to strangle.

Try to share some of the responsibilities with others so you don’t get stuck with the leg of the turkey and you really wanted the breast meat.  Why do we have Brussels sprouts just like the old saying from the late 1970’s and 80’s show of bottom? Because it’s Christmas!

If you really want a certain present and you have the cash buy it yourself then at least your get what you wanted. The return ques after Christmas are manic.

Remember to tell people that you care about that you love them and value them.

Be prepared to help with the washing up and when you make your new years resolutions make them achievable.

I started the year talking about our own jigsaw puzzles mine is far from complete I am still trying to find the right pieces and some I believe are even pieces of my own. So let’s plod on and in the coming year I will try to encourage and empower you all to reach for the stars.

Merry Christmas Annielise Stonexxxx