sensingwithspirit.com Annielise Stone

The Quiet and Waiting times of Spiritual Development in other words feelings that it’s sudden gone quite and you have got to the stage where your wondering what is going on.

Times of waiting and not knowing or sure if we are learning or developing, as we walk our own life path we have periods of time when we feel at a loss. Direction of thinking is that we should be doing something or at least feeling that we aren’t just stuck in a rut or even stagnated,for the person who is feeling this particular dryness or even lack of communication it feels again like someone has turned out the light do not worry or be concerned in fact lots of things are going on it is just a time of temperance.

Instead we should embrace these thinkings and quiet times and even though we feel we should be do something anything to grow. Let us just catch our ‘breath’ because this is the time of just being. The leaders teacher or guides feel for us that this a time for much growth. It a time where out bodies and minds catch up its also a time for the earth plane to do and act and be a part of the every day world and not just as light workers or of spiritual knowledge but a part of every day including life work home and balance.
From our teachers perspective it’s a really busy time setting up new ways of teaching us how to use gifts to understand the next part of the process. Some say that lots of people who mediate find there meditation very busy not personal linked but again it appears that every one else is doing things a part from you. Some also experience feeling that others are being taught whilst they are at a stand still infact it’s the opposite their own guides are being prepared for the next lessons.
Another point I would like to raise is that if you are part of a group and the group itself seems to be at stand still this is again time waiting for others to catch up. Others also need to experience different aspects times session even waiting to understand or for a new guide or helper to receive instruction also. Each step works in order or sequence you may find that you start to see or hear things on a different wave length or astral plane. Each step must follow the other a bit like a recipe if you leave out the important ingredient it will cause the waiting period to take longer.

Sometimes, a waiting period involves other people that are learning lessons. Those people are important to your life path and you must wait until they learn their lessons before you can actively move forward. Again, you may feel like nothing is going on in your life but the people you are waiting for are going through many, many changes. Once they are ready you can start to feel the action in your life. Remember, everything happens in sequence and one event must happen before the next and your next event might be dependent on someone else.
The time of stillness of perhaps frustration do not get worried upset or even feel empty. You can still do your healing routines and you usual mediations. Just also try to relax and let go and you find it comes back with a lightening bolt. Again it’s usually these quite times are getting you ready for the next huge wave.

So how can you handle this wave of stillness especially if your used to being so involved and walking this part is away of life along with all the planning and cleaning and even when we are sick we still try to think of others, its not usually something you pick up on put down. Instead try and relax trust your gut and your intuition because you do feel that there’s is nothing going on and nothing you seem to say or do makes a difference. Try not to panic or worry about outside pressure there is enough problems with out you worrying that you don’t fully understand the lesson.

The lesson or guidance is to be to have faith love and trust Relax and know that this period of time of waiting is just another way of teaching you more. So put your feet up and just be because soon your be working flat out and so busy your forget you even had a waiting time.
How can a person handle those time periods? First of all you have to be able to recognize these times. If you meditate and you’re Guides tell you that it is a rest period then that makes things a little easier. Otherwise, you need to trust your intuition because you WILL feel that there is nothing for you to do. If you can rid yourself of all feelings of fear or pressures from family or society that you “should” be doing something, then the answer of rest and relaxation will become apparent to you. Most importantly, having patience and trusting will get you through those long days of simply waiting and those days can feel like they go on forever.

They don’t instead try to remember if we constantly act and give we also have to learn to receive.

By Annielise Stone 23/6/10

Part 6 Acknowledging the Inner Child and trying to keep the peace.

When I think of the other parts of the Inner Child I realise that she it a part of me like eating sleeping and breathing. In some aspects a twin of my inner emotions not wanted to deal with at Child hood level because at the time not having the understanding or knowledge to actually recognising what she wants or needs. Again perhaps it’s a little of both.

Through out lives we are condition to do the right thing to know right from wrong and to be good and we will be rewarded. Even some religions state that our pecking order is judged on the acts of good deeds what we achieve in this time will set us in good faith for what is to come. Now this where it gets a little sticky because for a huge amount of people from every where in the world who don’t believe in parts of the important document then this don’t mean much.

A promise of finding something or someone that has been missing from their lives in a place where people describe of peace and tranquilly and light and love. So again they say the proof of the pudding is in the eating. Yet we all like different things and we all eat different things so our views and thoughts again of this can again be completely at odds with someone else.

I could really get deep with this but again that would take several hours of typing and lots of words and views and opinions on my part. So for now we all have our own views on the subject of God and Heaven. Some of us believe in reincarnation and some of us belief it don’t matter what you do or say when you’re dead your dead and that’s that.

Now this again gets a bit tricky for me because if it was the case when you’re dead your dead. I would not have been talking to the other side my whole life would I?

I would not have experience the things I have seen or felt and neither would anyone else who has these gifts. Neither would I been able to pass on accurate information to people I had never met give names dates and places not only in this country but in other parts of the world and some of them I could not even speak the language. But that is great because it shows, if something need saying a message gets there one way or another.

So back to the Inner child if we can understand her frustration her worries and her fears we are already half way to helping not only ourselves but our children if we recognise certain traits and behaviour patterns surely in time we wont over re act and learn we don’t have to be perfect to be loved or wanted. We just need to learn to love and accept ourselves for us. WARTS and ALL.

By learning to accept that we are who we are and that going on a sudden diet and starving ourselves is not going to work in the long run. The quick fix can only last as long as the tight under wear will let breathe with out crippling up in pain wearing black because we have read somewhere it makes us look thin and not wearing any strips because it don’t matter what the size you are its like drawing attention to the huge spot on your chin its going to get noticed. Like a huge beacon of light Saying look at me.

The inner child is a part of you if you can accept that your half way to accepting you. The magazines that imply that you have to have a certain look is fake just like half the pictures in it touched up with clever air brushing. Then thousand spent of false bits to make up for the bits that we think we need to look beautiful.

The famous quote beauty is seen by the eyes of the beholder. One mans drink is another mans poison. To be realistic again if your Dads short and your Mums short there a big chance your going to be short.

The famous DNA which makes us all unique is part also of our parents and their parents. That’s why some of us have blue eyes and our siblings can have green or brown eyes.

If everyone looked the same we end up forgetting who we are the zebra is black and white yet no too patterns are the same. A field of sheep which all appear to look the same are different each one with its own marks and personality. Twins can appear to be identical to a person who does not necessarily know them but again to a loved one they know who is who.

So my response to all of your you and your Inner Childs love them and treat them as you want to be treated listen to them allow them the odd strop and accept you for you. In the long run acceptance is the biggest part of acknowledgement and acknowledgement lets you grow move on and deal with all sorts of life’s little issues they throw at us.

Annielise Stone

Continuing the story of the inner child parts one to four can be also found on my website www.sensingwithspirit.com

Thanks Annielise

In previous posts about the Inner Child I have talked how we should try to have a relationship with our own inner child when we ignore her we suddenly find she has a cob and starts either the sulk or the plan to make us feel vulnerable insecure and threatened.

All these things are used by her to UN nerve us and throw us off balance. This leads to a second battle and the one I am talking about is the power struggle not only of your own inner child but even of someone else’s who decided to feed of you and her.

So all of a sudden there are two forces at work your own inner worries and third party of someone else’s personal issues.

Example: You get dragged into someone else’s friction you know it the two other people who have spent many months plotting and scheming against each other who seem to try and build up sides and armies and you trying to do your job suddenly finds yourself either on the end of it or bang right in the middle. They are every where work, college even at home.

You have spent all week trying to avoid situations and just plod along trying not to get on anyone’s nerves and here it is Friday and power struggle explodes. Next your inner child starts I told you so, I said you should not work with these types and you always end up with taking the blame. No only are you trying to work out who these other types are but already your head aches your stressed.

The weekends of to a brilliant start and already your dreading Monday morning for as sure eggs are eggs its some how going to be your fault even though you did your job followed the rules and still some how managed to come out with the dog poo on your shoes and it don’t matter, how many times you wash it off the smell wont go away.

What’s next! You ask yourself do you spend the whole weekend wondering if you going to get pulled in to explain your side and to be honest what side. Why should you even have to explain that you follow the policy laid down the rules and guidelines of!

Again the sun shiners the types it don’t matter what goes down they come up smelling of roses. Will have a fantastic weekend and their gloating Inner Childs have managed not only to have been fed and watered for another week they even have bonus points for upsetting yours.

Limit the damage try to explain to yourself first that your not alone you just feel like it. You’re not the only person in the world who feels that what ever they try to do it always seems to be wrong. Be careful of the sympathetic ear yes we all need to off load but don’t do it to news week again the report will get out of hand and in the end your will find yourself front page news and not for the right reasons.

Chocolate helps along with a nice hot bath play some of your favourite music or watch a good film. Learn to read the signs before they happen. Smile in most situations. The Inner Child loves her chocolate but not too much or we have the sick issues. Next try smiling it confuses people it also makes them wonder if they have actually achieved their goal.

To be honest you may feel like cr… But don’t show it. Suggestion: when in difficult situations answer question with a question.Then say sorry but I haven’t got all the information “Can I get back you Brad?” It gives you breathing space ok on insight you won’t remember it every time but like my old mum used to say for warned is for armed. I am sure she read is somewhere and its someone else famous quote in the end its good advice so have a better week Annielise Stone March 7^th 2010

I have decided to post a couple of instances where a spiritual experience can’t always be explained. I try to look for a logic reason also because sometimes there can be both and it then helps differentiate
between a spiritual experience or not.

The first was Water.

This experience happens 3 times in the space of a couple of weeks. They things come in 3’s and you should always pay attention.

One day I was coming down the stairs and I felt water dripping on my head my first thought was oh it’s a leak where from. Now this is the odd part. As I looked up I saw a stream of water and first I thought the ceiling was coming down. But as the panic stopped I then saw a stranger thing the water came from the ceiling but it was not wet it streamed down but it had no top and no bottom. I thought this is odd and I felt the carpet but it was bone dry. I need found a chair and stood on it and examed the ceiling. Again it was dry. You think I had imagined it. But my face was wet from the water.

A few days later I was in a shop and again I felt water dripping on me I looked up and again saw the stream of water and felt the drip of it on my face again I jumped expecting a leaky roof on at least some wet on the floor. Again nothing I felt a bit silly as no one was aware of it but me and I could hardly call out and say look at this.

The last time I saw the stream of water with no top and no bottom was outside at first I thought it was raining or even a bird had done the UN speak able. Again a few drops on my face and this time the water was almost rainbow coloured no top or bottom just for a few seconds this beautiful stream of coloured water.

So get your thinking caps on and let me know what you think I will add another discussion as this has taken more words than I originally thought.

For the people who are with us in body but their minds is some where else. For the families who care for these special people.

This post came about because of what I call Synchronicity. A happen chance of thoughts and ideas. Again I have mention this in previous posts.

In the space of a few days I had several times when this subject was brought to my attention I was asked if I thought that people suffering from Dementia and other illness such as being in a coma etc. Did they A dream and B would appear to be somewhere else. It’s been said that people who have similar conditions at various times are seen to be flickering in and out of life.

I am no doctor and there are probably lots of medical reasons to back up the theory of what appears to be contact. That, I am not discussing what I am suggesting is another theory, which may or may not offer some understanding to our loved ones who care for us when we are in this place.

Yes I believe that people who suffer from illnesses such as Dementia do leave there bodies and travel to times and places where they had created memories from the past. There they found peace and comfort so when viewed by the out side world seemed child like. I also believe this of coma victims and other people who have similar conditions.

The reason behind that thought is that the long term memory stores 1000’s of cells of memory from as far back from the moment of conception. That’s why we have random memories of things that we did when we were 2. Of this can apply to situations that we have had abuse in and it’s safer to shut them down but that’s another thought we can still block out bad memories and that comment I will leave for another time.

Yes I believe that people who suffer from illnesses such as Dementia do leave there bodies and travel to times and places where they had created memories from the past. There they found peace and comfort so when viewed by the out side world seemed child like.

Many years ago I knew and old chap and I helped him and his wife with some shopping and I would sit with him while she went out to her club. He loved to talk of the time of Trams and place called Streatham in London. He would describe every detail to me the colour the smell the amount of people he knew.

He spoke of his job and where he went to work. I sit and trim his hair and he talk after a while he stop and say do I know you and I say yes and he say did I tell you about the time. His long term memory was full of information and it stored such joy for him.

Later as his illness progressed he still went off on his travels but did not talk about them. Out of the body took his memories to another place he just did not have the energy to talk about them he still enjoyed them. Yet for others to watch and see a loved one disappear in front of them that’s another thing entirely. I want perhaps to suggest that if they can find some peace in knowing that they are just visiting an old friend.

To continue,

I watched a film recently and in it I spoke of Robin Williams he played a doctor who worked with people who were in worlds of there own struck down by an illness over a period of time

He used a drug which was in experimental stages and it worked for a while but soon the drug no longer worked it was called the awakening and I have already mentioned it in another post Diary of an inner child part 3. In it I mention that words don’t have to be spoken.

“Communication is not just spoken word it’s a gesture a sign”. By Annielise Stone sensingwithspirit.com

So yes we do find solace in many places. Especially if we have had the chance to have memories to go and see people, places etc.

I do think it’s slightly difference for children who are born with problems and cant communicate in the traditional way.

For them it’s a different way music soft spoken word etc kindness love.

I also believe they have special places to go but this is more child like perhaps filled with music and flowers and kindness they may also remind past lives and go and visit people from them.

I hope this answers your very important question Maria and thank you for raising it. Like I say also applies to people in commas again they travel and are off living a life on another place or dimension. Keep talking keep reading keep listening and it is possible to reach them it’s just done in a different way. Happy Easter Annielise Stone 2^nd April 2010

Dreams have many facets I was thinking about how some dreams are about people who we have a connection with either in this life time or linked to us through others places, etc.

Exploring Dreams

Are some dreams linked into our subconscious allowing us in a dream state to be present with people or loved ones not only that have passed to spirit, but others who we may had relationships with and then they dissolve before we have had the chance to get it off our chest. (In other words feelings not being able to put closer to a time place or situation).

Even in this topic there are various facets that also include dreams where we are being chased we are running away falling fear of water etc. In this post I want to explore a couple of different areas I will go into detail as the post develops.

Personal Experience.

As a young child I avoid horror films those I did watch I spent most of them hiding behind the sofa or covering my face. As I grew some of the horror films became comical as with all special effects as we grow we start to realise that lot of them is just acting or story lines. So you think the dreams or nightmares would cease. I found that this was not the case in fact they stayed with me.

One particular experience was with the werewolf stories these seemed to be the one area that haunted my dreams growing up as a child and into adult hood. The strange thing is that I truly love wolves as animals I think they are loyal kind strong and very protective I also have a spirit animal of a wolf who often sits with me and warns me of danger.

So why was it? That I would regularly dream of this particular nightmare certain times of the year strange places and even stress would cause me to have nightmares of being chased of being attacked and my throat being torn out. Every time it would get to the last moment and I would just escape and wake up.

A couple of years back I had a chance to do a half mathorn 13miles through the Redwoods in Rotoura New Zealand I was living in Rotoura at the time I was new to the area and I had visited this beautiful place a few times and the chance to be able to run and walk through them was too good to miss. Ok I am not a walker as such and the only training I did was a couple of weeks walking the roads to get my walking legs going.

The point was I am fairly fit person and was told that if I put Vaseline on my heels and wore a comfortable pair of trainer I would be ok. I think the odd socks helped and the fact my water bottle leaked down my back as the stopper was loose all helped my case.

Well I did it and in just over 3 hours and a couple of minutes I was proud as punch. I will add the photo just to show you. Ok what the point that very same night I dream again that I was being chased by werewolves and they were on a killing spree. True there are places in New Zealand you can easily get lost as there are miles and miles of trees and bushes etc. So it was easily explained that if wolves were wild they could or would live very happily there.

I like most people over the years have explored dreams trying to make understand what the inner issues were. I read up on the internet and I also looked at dream books. The common link was wolves were seen as people or mail energy trying to control person or persons it was also said dream interpretation
meaning of dream
A werewolf is a creature that does not exist in the physical world. He is symbolic of a man that turns into a monster, a normal person that transforms into a bloodthirsty animal. The werewolf may represent something in your life or in your own personality. When interpreting this dream, consider internal and external factors that generally seem normal but have a tendency to transform into undesirable, hurtful, or dangerous concerns in your life.

I racked my brain trying to connect or think who this person or person could be that may want to control my life I was not in any threat from relationships or from friends that would want to harm me. To be honest I had been to some dodgy areas in my time to give reading to people and even being a complete strange always felt that I was protected. The animal of wolves themselves still being a favourite of mine never loosing that bond. So I started looking at people in different ways seeing if they behaved differently. To be honest they didn’t. And with any dream that you have had for a while you tend to put it to the back of your mind until the next time.

I then started to wonder if certain food that I ate was and again that trigger did not account for the dreams. I must admit my walks in the Redwoods for a while became strained until I realised that my own fear was actually giving emotional feed to the dream itself.

Was this the Key to the dream, perhaps in my subconscious it was. Months went by and even a year the dream became less fearful. Then one day a few months back the dream returned. Again the chase, again hiding and running away. Until I realised that why I kept hiding and running the dream had a presence a reason to continue. I actually remember this time stopping and turning to the fearful creature and saying do your worst you want to destroy me here I am. The next thing that happened was the creature disappeared I felt that at last I had conquered my own fear.

When I analysed it the next day I came to the conclusion that I was creating the dream I was looking for a cause and the cause was me. By hiding and running away I made the dream last I made the dream more scary and I started looking for reasons. Everyone gets stress and this aspect of this type of dream was a creation of me not wanting to face my own fears. I can’t give the fear a name or date or time or place it was just a general insecurity that manifested in my own head. Now I wonder

If I had faced it earlier would it have stopped then or did I have to wait to understand it first.

So my next post I started to wonder if the dreams I have about people who I have regular dreamed about were they also trying to get me to think about talking to them too. Perhaps it was the case that things that I may not have said to them would later come out in a dream. I will explore this thinking in another post.

how they may affect you.

Annielise Stone 18^th March 2010

Diary of an Inner Child part 4 The Plotters and Schemers just waiting for the time when they can creep just when you not looking and…………………………

The inner child’s been quite for the past few days and you’re plodding along not really thinking about any thing in particular. It’s too cold to worry if the extra pounds, are creeping on due the mid week chocolate fix and boy it was Valentines Day, so you had to spoil yourself just in case any one else didn’t. You probably even sent yourself a card at sometime just to have one on the side to show the world someone loved you.

Its Easter next and already the chocolate you have secretly given up for lent. Your planning a huge fix when no ones looking. Dreaming Chocolate Bunnies and drooling like Homers after a do nut!

But ! In the back ground, the constant thought, the promise of listening and supporting the inner child it’s suddenly become easier to ignore her.  Why because she been watching she been looking and she knows the flaws. In the meantime someone’s, working someone, who would not  usually say Boo to a Goose has been plotting and scheming and under minding you, not only work but a so called friend who has always had the eye on a particular someone, something, position is at work also.

Then the out of the blue question comes “How are doing? How are things going? What do you feel?” Next you find that someone had said something and it’s so small your gob smacked and there you are defending yourself over something so trivial that you can’t believe what you just heard.

Do you talk to too much? Do you talk not enough are you a team player and slap the wind is taken straight out of your sails.

This situation is real its apart of every day whether its work home or personal watching, your back is a full time job and also listening to the Inner Child too because honestly we all get to complacent. We start to believe our own status and our own self importance.

So what do we do us fight back we pull up our socks stick out our chin and HIDE I KNOW! We are so out raged at the audacity of the situation we are stuck,we are struck we are so out raged we fail, with moving  forward. Once we lick our wounds, complain to the nearest sympatric ear we have to stop and put up a defense. The quite would not say boo to a ghost types are secret plotters and schemers and don’t you forget it. The old saying walls have ears means exactly that behind every success is someone who not only wants it but will try everything to get it. Am I cynical perhaps or just cautious because my inner child was actually warning me of this weeks ago but I was so full of my own importance, I forgot to listen?

So a week or so goes past ,you can’t make your mind up if the complain is genuine or if now you have inferiority complex, or perhaps a bit of both. You have spent nights going over the situation in your head and others say oh don’t worry let it go. Where? when deep down you know you’re the new guy even though you may have been there for ever.

Let’s face it. It’s not the first time. It may not be the last UN less you alters it. HOW.

Expectation what did you expect if you’re not confident in what you’re doing it will show they say bull Sh..te Baffles brains but to be fair you can only use so much of that before it bites you back. Don’t get complacent be prepared for the UN expected and realise you’re not alone. I follow the ABC plan Annielise view to surving almost any situation if A doesn’t work try B and if B doesn’t work try C. There are 26 options in my plans and if I run out of them I use A1 like my mum once said there are more that one way or catching a Rat you sometimes have to think like one. Like they say in the song Pick yourself up and Start all over again. Exits and Entry plan your routes like keeping a filo fax what to cubs and guides are prepared. You do have to realise that for some of us to keep going is to keep trying. Tip for the Day Smile Sweetly at the Emery it confuses them and their ego will think that they have won. But that’s where they are wrong we know better By Annielise Stone 19^th Feb 2010

First post of 2010

Play on words

In October 2008 and I wrote a blog about reason season lifetime. The post was about how the people you meet and the relationships which can form from that.This post is about a play on words its another view of a blog which I spoke about my own spiritual side and this post is about relationships and love and the desire that we all keep looking for that special person.

Sometimes you meet or see a person and there is an instant attraction and it can be like an emotional roller coaster, its fast intent and exiting. It may hang around for a season but it definitely ends for a reason. Others are less exciting more ordinary slowly creeping up on you they hang around partly for the reason but get complacent and end up the season. You hope its going to be a lifetime and you make plans you may even think that your soul mates. Then you start to notice flaws things that annoy you strange habits or ways.

Now I know this post may seem a little cynical and nothing like I usually write. As with all things I write each is an opinion and nothing is ever written in stone. A play on words now this is where the title comes in Annielise Stone lol.Even so we all constanly look for this one person to make us complete and the Romantic in me says why not.

I am trying to get you to think to react I find that as humans we all start out with an ideal and it takes a lot of effort to maintain it. Like if you change your hair colour unless you keep it up you get root growth and it soon looses it glossy shine. Relationships require work family friends love ones you have to compromise and make allowances for people who you know deep down aren’t perfect but to have someone for some people is better than nothing.

So let’s realize that people come mainly on the whole for a reason. Some because they are lonely some because they need to be part of pack or set because they have always had someone to rely on and even if you don’t care you have someone to blame.

Let’s take ownership of our thoughts of our needs and of our desires. Soul mates do exist they are people who understand our strange foibles they except that we aren’t perfect they conditionally love us and are strong enough to make a stand or take a back seat.

The season people well like all bad weather you can wait for it to leave sometimes it leaves you out in the cold other times you boil with frustration and then like the fall it dissolves waiting for the spring in which time you can go all out to try for another season or just be glad they came for a reason.

Lifetime when do you work out whose lifetime it’s for. Do you measure it in month’s days or years the optimist in me wants everyone to have a special someone for at least a season. Is it when you think that someone with stay with you for ever does it become the lifetime only to find out when you have lived with someone for 20 years to tie the knot to then find out that you were happier because you had to work at your relationship when you were just partners but now your tied do you suddenly feel the trap.

Real love is achievable but to maintain it one will always have to let the other take charge equal partners are the best lifetimes each of them having enough strength to allow the other one to grow and trust and friendship humour and loyalty are all just some of the ingredients needed to make it work.

So I wish everyone this year a reason for love a season for love and the optimism to want it to last a life time. We all grow we all get tired and we all need a reason to love.

So this year my motto is find a reason and I am sure it will definitely turn into a season with lots of hard work. REASON SEASON LIFETIME.The choice is yours.

Annielise Stone Reflections 10 years on from the start of the Millennium 2009.

I woke up this morning and my thoughts as always what is today and what am I going to do. December always seems to go in a flash as everyone is busy preparing for a few days of eating drinking and celebrating. The children get presents we try to see folks we have not seen in months or even years we all eat too much and most of us end up with at least one pair of socks from some distance family member.

Ten years on from the famous 1999 they wrote books they made films they talk about computer chaos the end of the world and civilization. But hang on a minute they talked about that in a George Orwell book 1984 and big brother watching you.

This chain of thoughts then went on even to the simplest things like now days you can’t be with out your Cell/ Mobile phone it’s almost to the point you can explode if you have lost or mislaid it. I know that some of you reading this will remember a time when we did not have such items or worried that we could not text. Communications has now be limited to symbols even the hardest languages in the world with over 2000 letter in the alphabet have the expression OK. Technology is amazing we have cars that we can’t service and we don’t repair the white goods any more computers every few years have a new must have. We have become a nation of throw aways and gadgets

We had such plans we were going into a new century yet came with it different sorts of problems wars recession bird flu swine flu. The year like every one see people who we love and care about leave the earth plane. We struggle with depression loneliness confusion and fear. We long for the time when it was simple and not complicated the added pressure of trying to be something or someone pushing us forward into debt.

Ten years on are we any happier are we any better off. For some No for other perhaps and for a few yes. I don’t want this to turn into a depressing blog for in all aspects of my opinion writing and thoughts it’s to empower others not to put them down. There is always going to be someone who you think is better looking has more money and has it all. If you ask them they probably find at least half a dozen reasons why also they consider their life sh.. Is the grass green on the other side No its still grass complete with different issues and problems and different ways and excitements.

The world woke up on the year 2000 and for some it had changed for others it was the same. Not really for nothing stays the same for every second something somewhere happens to someone. They get old they die they are born. We are the Human Race we have flaws and we are not perfect we make mistakes and we can be cruel. I like also to think we can be kind and fair too.

Life is a cup of half full’s or half empties the word is choice we try to make the right choice for the right time place situation. For people places and for ourselves. This blog is being written on one side of the hemisphere on the other side they are on the verge of another new year Welcome 2010 and should old aquatances be forgot or never come to mind. Remember people who you love remember people who made you laugh and remember people who made you think. To think is to be and from there you can act upon the next year to come with a fresh start and new belief that we can do better if we really put our minds to it Happy New Year and Welcome 2010. Annielise Stone

Annielise Stone Letting go of guilt the loss of a child not punishing yourself

As an International medium who has again had the chance to work in other countries even hemispheres it has given me insights that amaze me to prove that love has no boundaries and that message of love and hope can come from unexpected places and sources

I feel very privilege that sometime I can help people to try to understand why when we are given such beautiful gifts they can be taken away from us.

A loss of a child can and does rip out the hearts of lots of people and it can affect so many other aspects of our lives to come.

Spirit has for a long time wanted me to try and give some wider understanding and help to those who have lost or even found that for many reasons given up babies

People contact me from all over the world some of them I have only met once or twice and some I have never spoken to. They are usually sent or have heard of me by word of mouth that’s how I suppose I originally started my journey which in turn took me to the other side of the world. Even today I have people contact me not always even asking me a question more the case to be reassured and empowered. Now I will have probably upset a few who believe that miscarriage and the word abortion are completely different. Again the word choice for they believe some choose to terminate and others may despise and loath those who have made that choice.

Let me explain I am trying to HELP not JUDGE I don’t claim to stand at the door and say you cant come in because of………………………………..

What I am trying to show is that all souls have their own blue print they choose their parent they choose the time of entering the earth and they choose to leave. Each of these souls has chosen to experience

I was recently contacted by a lady who has been expected her forth child she was desperate for a little boy she had 3 other children all were in very close in age her husband has been out of work for sometime and they had also had a rather difficult year.

At first she felt guilty that she had fallen again but this soon past and she hope that this time it would bring the little boy.

Things started to improve for the family and home and work life settled down and with the on set of Christmas things suddenly changed the lady fell ill and the baby was born early and there were a few complications. Then she asked herself what did I do wrong what did I wish for was I being greedy or was I just not satisfied. My reply to her was that she did nothing wrong her child saw that the family that it was going too had already more than it fair share of problems the earthly body that it had chosen had been damaged and it was no one fault. The child felt that if it came the family would have not stay together that its siblings would have also suffered and that it parents would also not been able to cope with the grief. It also knew that another life was also planed for this family and by taking this step love holds no boundaries. The child came to me and asked me to explain not just about her but about all conceptions. It’s not about the birth of a child it’s about the conception that is when it achieves it goal from there it can move on its pathway to reach each own personal path. So we are not punished because of something we may have done or said not when deep in our hearts we are troubled by the out come of life for others. It does not make us a bad person if we make a choice that others consider to be wrong they say there but for the grace of god. We judge ourselves we will stand and access our lives and in the end we don’t need a judge and jury for many the pain we retain is more than any life sentence. My belief is that we have a choice we can only judge with the information we have at hand at the time sometimes we punish ourselves harder than anyone else. My suggestion is that we all have areas of our lives in which we made decisions and afterwards we like to change them we cant but we can limit the damage and be kinder and gentler to ourselves and each other.

.As always trying to reach the world and a large audience Annielise

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