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“Communication is not just spoken word it’s a gesture a sign”. By Annielise Stone Internation Medium 13th Feb 2010 sensingwithspirit.com

Some days the Inner Child gets up earlier than you in fact she probably didn’t shut up at all, kept you awake half the night worrying about anything and everything, too numerous to mention and your too knackered to care.

You know it’s the sort of day you wake up with that huge spot or Zit on your chin no matter how much concealer you put on it. There it is for the whole world to see along with the fact, you can find any clean underwear and your favourite top has shrunk in the wash. Guess what the paper in the loo run out too!

From there the day seems to escalate at a speed faster than a landslide. You miss the bus, the train and you have run out of milk for that all important hot beverage TEA. You creep into work hoping that you can hide the fact you’re A) 15 minutes late, and B) the huge growth on your chin.

There she is waiting to pounce and the day is set. You have forgotten to take back the library books and the 3 DVD’s that you got thinking you have a you moment only to find you seen two before and the other one was complete utter rubbish to top it all your a day late and the fines mean you could have brought them cheaper.

So the lunch hour is spent trying to find the shortest cue and you end up with a cold coffee and dry sandwich because all the best ones are gone. The machine in the library is asking for the fines and wont let you take anything else out until you paid and finally you have forgotten your pin and can get any cash out for the bus home.

For some of us this is a too regular occurrence and you can guarantee your are continually going too put your foot in it.

One of my favourite sayings”Talks of the devil and it follows you up”. With all my good intentions to try and practise Karma even I have days. The inner child has her moments I am sure all of you have seen the cartoons with the devil on one shoulder and the Angel on the other and fighting both and usually the chocolate wins hands down.

Mind! You’re inner child needs attention love and lots of understanding making peace with her is a full time job but very worth while and when you work together. Both of you end up with a win win. Rather than win loose. (“I told you so”)

Today been a particularly difficult one it’s like don’t get too complacent and deep down recognise you cant please people all of the time in some cases you cant please some people at all. Realism recognises that as human beings we also have flaws and we do screw up all of us at sometime or another.

I have written over 70 blogs in the last couple of years and today my website decide it did not want to work or let anyone view my thoughts. Perhaps my own ego got in the way and I presumed that by talking about various subjects and opinions that I could reach a wider audience. I have met people from all over the world I have given readings to many different countries races and continents all of these people came from different back ground and I liked to think with my help they moved forward working through their own pathways. I always try to include humour in my blogs as without them the ability to make fun at ones own self would make me appear boring. I got told to today you like to talk. I do! should I have taken offence. Perhaps is it the case that I want to try give you some tools to help you work with life instead of against it.

My reply was also I can listen for if I had spent all my life talking how I would be able to provide so much information on so many subjects without having someone talk to me.

“Communication is not just spoken word it’s a gesture a sign”. By Annielise Stone sensingwithspirit.com

I watched an old film last night with Robin Williams and Robert De Nero in called the Awakening the story of a man who tried to help people who were affected by an illness which causes them to retreat into their own worlds making them completely dependant on others. For a short time drugs work to help these people but with all medicines we don’t know the side effects. The point was he learnt behind the drugs to reach people was human contact. Time, understanding and yes, talking which I do a great deal of.

As the story unfolds the line There is not such thing as a simple miracles expresses that we all need greater understanding of life itself. Annielise Stone 13^th Feb 2010

At this time of year especially people often feel more lonely and sad than any other time of the year. The expression of being lonely in a crowded room a lot of people will understand. There are many reasons why the holiday season it’s not all snow and good cheer. It can remind us of people who we have loved and they are no longer on the earth plane. It can remind us of past relationships and friendships that we know longer keep in touch with and these can have many reasons why.

With all the hustle and bustle and the hidden pressure of trying to show willing many of us turn in ward even more than usual. Some hide others drink or even pretend they don’t care.  The human race is very complicated we have many cultures religious beliefs, pressure of family work and appearing to conform.

Don’t feel guilty that you’re not complying with the rules what rules.  The Christmas spirit is just that.  Get through it with limited damaged. If you get a gift you don’t really want grin and bear it the shops are open on Boxing Day and I am sure your find something in the sales you really want. Tolerate Aunt Aggie and all the annoying habits that come with the family members that we all really want to strangle.

Try to share some of the responsibilities with others so you don’t get stuck with the leg of the turkey and you really wanted the breast meat.  Why do we have Brussels sprouts just like the old saying from the late 1970’s and 80’s show of bottom? Because it’s Christmas!

If you really want a certain present and you have the cash buy it yourself then at least your get what you wanted. The return ques after Christmas are manic.

Remember to tell people that you care about that you love them and value them.

Be prepared to help with the washing up and when you make your new years resolutions make them achievable.

I started the year talking about our own jigsaw puzzles mine is far from complete I am still trying to find the right pieces and some I believe are even pieces of my own. So let’s plod on and in the coming year I will try to encourage and empower you all to reach for the stars.

Merry Christmas Annielise Stonexxxx

Cuthbert wants to know what are you looking at?

 

 

 

I was sent this joke in an email it made me laugh as it had been one of those days.  Annielise

 

>Having a bad day read on.

  A little guy is sitting at the bar just staring at his drink for
>half an hour when this big trouble-making Bully steps next to
>him, grabs his drink, gulps it down in one swig and then turns to
>the guy with a menacing stare as if to say, ‘What’cha gonna do
>about it?’
>
>The poor little guy starts crying.
>
>’Come on man I was just giving you a hard time,’ the bloke says. 
>I’ didn’t think you’d CRY.’ ‘I can’t stand to see a man crying.
>
>’This is the worst day of my life,’ says the little guy between
>sobs. ‘I can’t do anything right.’ ‘I overslept and was late to
>an important meeting, so my boss fired me.
>
>When I went to the parking lot, I found my car was stolen and I
>don’t have any insurance. I left my wallet in the cab I took
>home. I found my wife in bed with the gardener and my dog bit me.
>
>So I came to this bar trying to work up the courage to put an end
>to my life, and then you show up and drink the poison

   I laughted till I dropped !

A man on his bike was riding along a beach when suddenly the sky clouded above his head and, in a booming voice, the Lord said, ‘Because you have tried to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you one wish.’

The biker pulled over and said, ‘Build a bridge to so I can ride over anytime I want.’
The Lord said, ‘Your request is materialistic, think of the enormous challenges for that kind of undertaking; the supports required reaching the bottom of the Pacific and the concrete and steel it would take! It will nearly exhaust several natural resources.

I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little more time and think of something that could possibly help mankind.’

The biker thought about it for a long time. Finally, he said, ‘Lord, I wish that I and all men could understand women; I want to know how she feels inside, what she’s thinking when she gives me the silent treatment, why she cries, what she means when she says nothing’s wrong, why she snaps and complains when I try to help, and how I can make a woman truly happy.’

The Lord replied, ‘You want two lanes or four on that bridge’?